Identify and report coercive control.
Family and domestic violence isn’t limited to physical abuse. Coercive control is when someone uses patterns of abusive behaviour against another person. Over time, this creates fear and takes away the person’s freedom and independence. This dynamic of coercive control is a precursor to almost all cases of domestic violence, but it can be tricky to recognise. That’s why we all need to look out for the signs.
What are the signs of coercive control?
Coercive control can involve:
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Controlling who a person sees, what they wear and where they go
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Monitoring or tracking everything a person does
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Controlling a person’s finances, medication, food or exercise
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Regularly criticising or blaming a person, so they doubt themselves and their experiences
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Forcing someone to have sex or do sexual things
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Stopping a person from following their religion or cultural practices
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Threatening a person, their children, family, friends or pets
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Manipulating co-parenting arrangements or child support payments after relationship separation
People experiencing coercive control may feel like they’re walking on eggshells, or that it’s difficult to disagree or say no. They may not even know they are being abused.